Follow O_CREAT semantics when creating connection or minor device/volume
objects.  If we need O_CREAT|O_EXCL semantics some time down the road,
we can add NLM_F_EXCL to the netlink message flags.
Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>