Update mail_room gem

## What does this MR do?

Upgrades the mail_room gem from 0.8.0 to 0.8.1.

## Why was this MR needed?

mail_room throws an exception if the watching script joins a undefined thread. Release 0.8.1 adds a check to ensure that the thread exists before calling join.

Fixes gitlab-org/omnibus-gitlab#1619.

See merge request !6714