move cythonize script to Cython.Build.Cythonize to make it generally available and keep bin/cythonize only as a pure start script

Also added note to change log.

allow srctree header commands to be wrapped in triple string quotes to stop IDEs from complaining about them

fix "exclude_failures" mode in cythonize() by also ignoring stripped C files from compilation failures

fix code generated for __dealloc__() and __releasebuffer__() to call WriteUnraisable() on exceptions instead of building a useless traceback