In https://github.com/python/cpython/pull/31530
https://bugs.python.org/issue46836

the `_frame` struct was moved to an internal header, however the public API is
primarily read-only, and Cython needs to build PyFrameObjects so still import
the internal headers.

Also sets the Py_BUILD_CORE define for py311a6, trying to restrict it to the frame header.