Increase timeouts on appveyor as well as travis, and once again do so when running leak checks since that logic changed.

Make portforwarder and test__example_portforwarder.py behave the same on Windows and POSIX. Hopefully fixes the intermittant failures on Windows.

Fix test__makefile_ref on Windows using a test-time optional dependency on psutil. appveyor installs this dep.

Fix test__issues461_471 on Windows. Extensive comments about the differences in Windows signal handling inline.

I verified in a local VM that gevent's universal newline handling in subprocess matches the stdlibs (it's arguably broken). Update the tests for this case and mark them no longer failing

Make Popen.wait() raise the right exception on PY3 windows so that subprocess.call() doesn't hang if the process doesn't exit within the timeout.

It might be simple to make subprocess more-or-less work under Windows/Py3. First step is to import the moved names from the right place. Fixes #668. Fixes #669.

Maybe we don't need to include the apparently borked header after all? Hate to make changes to libev source though.