Support libuv under CPython 3.6 on Windows

First the crash report:

```
  testInterruptedRecvmsgTimeout (__main__.InterruptedRecvTimeoutTest) ... Traceback (most recent call last):
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/_ffi/loop.py", line 83, in python_callback
      def python_callback(self, handle, revents):
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/greentest/3.6/test_socket.py", line 3698, in <lambda>
      lambda signum, frame: 1 / 0)
  ZeroDivisionError: division by zero
  Fri Dec 15 16:09:36 2017
  ok
  testInterruptedSendTimeout (__main__.InterruptedSendTimeoutTest) ... Fatal Python error: ffi.from_handle() detected that the address passed points to garbage. If it is really the result of ffi.new_handle(), then the Python object has already been garbage collected

  Thread 0x00002b26d4c01700 (most recent call first):
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/_threading.py", line 152 in wait
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/_threading.py", line 436 in get
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/threadpool.py", line 200 in _worker

  Thread 0x00002b26d4a00700 (most recent call first):
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/_threading.py", line 152 in wait
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/_threading.py", line 436 in get
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/threadpool.py", line 200 in _worker

  Current thread 0x00002b26cc7b2a00 (most recent call first):
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/_ffi/loop.py", line 178 in python_stop
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/libuv/loop.py", line 289 in run
    File "/home/travis/build/gevent/gevent/src/gevent/hub.py", line 688 in run
```

The main problem turned out to be the way in which libuv reports
signals at random times, much worse than the way libev does. This led
to callback functions unexpectedly returning 0, because that's the
default for an unhandled exception or an onerror handler that returns
None. That in turn led to calls to python_stop that we weren't
expecting using a handle that had already been deallocated.

The fix is to both be defensive about what handles we try to use, and
to be more explicit about our error returns.

Disable pypy on appveyor again because it takes too long. I need to make sure it runs on POSIX first.

I solved the test_ftplib.py windows failures locally by more careful handling of lifetimes of io watchers: they should be disposed when the fileno is. I investigated a more drastic approach using new watchers entirely every time we restart, but it doesn't seem necessary, at least on CPython (I can't even run PyPy+libuv locally on darwin though, so there are more problems lurking there).

All tests are passing locally after fixing a GC-cycle related issue in
the io watcher that kept the wrong socket watchers alive. This should
probably be generalized to all watchers on all FFI platforms.

Attempt to fix (or workaround) test__socket.py on Windows

It runs locally for me on Win10/Py3.6 with both libev and libuv.

It had been sometimes failing since 2016-02 for 2.7 and 2016-04 for
3.5.

Here's the comment in the code indicating what I tracked down. Note
that the changes are more of a workaround than a true fix:

XXX: On Windows (at least with libev), if we have a cleanup/tearDown
method that does 'del self.listener' AND we haven't sometime
previously closed the listener (while the test body was executing) we
tend to sometimes see hangs when tests run in succession; notably
test_empty_send followed by test_makefile produces a hang in
test_makefile when it tries to read from the client_file, because the
accept() call in accept_once has not yet returned a new socket to
write to.

The cause *seems* to be that the listener socket in both tests gets
the same fileno(); or, at least, if we don't del the listener object,
we get a different fileno, and that scenario works.

Perhaps our logic is wrong in libev_vfd in the way we use
_open_osfhandle and determine we can close it?

Additional note:

Possibly libuv doesn't suffer from this since it takes the SOCKET
object directly? I didn't fully test that situation, but libuv tests
were failing and are now passing.

Add and fix test_ftplib.py and test_asyncore.py for 3.6. 

Test on 3.6.3 on Travis; appveyor was already there. 

Use setuptools to build libuv, and enable it on Windows (especially for PyPy)

Let PyPy fail on Appveyor for now. Also bump Travis PyPy to 5.9.0 because I can't reproduce the test__makefile_ref failure locally on 5.9.0. Fixes #1029.

Successful test with CPython 3.5 on Windows 10; have to elide getaddrinfo and getnameinfo because they won't link.

Tweak test for random ImportWarning from Python 3: ImportWarning: can't resolve package from __spec__ or __package__, falling back on __name__ and __path__

Use setuptools to build libuv. This should be much simpler, especially on windows, at the cost of manually keeping up with link arguments and file deps.