When a Tx starts a query, prevent returning the connection to the pool
until after the query finishes.

Fixes #19058

Change-Id: I2c0480d9cca9eeb173b5b3441a5aeed6f527e0ac
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/40400


Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>
Run-TryBot: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>