Sending multiple flushsnap messages is problematic because we ignore
the response if the tid doesn't match, and the server may only respond to
each one once.  It's also a waste.

So, skip cap_snaps that are already on the flushing list, unless the caller
tells us to resend (because we are reconnecting).

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@newdream.net>