mlx5 HW spec and bits updates:
1) Aya exposes IP-in-IP capability in mlx5_core.
2) Maxim exposes lag tx port affinity capabilities.
3) Moshe adds VNIC_ENV internal rq counter bits.
4) ODP capabilities for DC transport

Misc updates:
5) Saeed, two compiler warnings cleanups
6) Add XRQ legacy commands opcodes
7) Use refcount_t for refcount
8) fix a -Wstringop-truncation warning