A HWPT is permanently associated with an IOAS when it is created, remove
the strange situation where a refcount != 0 HWPT can have been
disconnected from the IOAS by putting all the IOAS related destruction in
the object destroy function.

Initializing a HWPT is two stages, we have to allocate it, attach it to a
device and then populate the domain. Once the domain is populated it is
fully linked to the IOAS.

Arrange things so that all the error unwinds flow through the
iommufd_hw_pagetable_destroy() and allow it to handle all cases.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/4-v3-ae9c2975a131+2e1e8-iommufd_hwpt_jgg@nvidia.comReviewed-by: Kevin Tian <kevin.tian@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>