Adopt net->dev_by_index as I did in commit 0e0939c0
("net-procfs: use xarray iterator to implement /proc/net/dev")

This makes sure an existing device is always visible in the dump,
regardless of concurrent insertions/deletions.

v2: added suggestions from Jakub Kicinski and Ido Schimmel,
    thanks for the help !

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/all/20240209142441.6c56435b@kernel.org/
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/all/ZckR-XOsULLI9EHc@shredder/Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240211214404.1882191-3-edumazet@google.comSigned-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>