This changes the write path to not add write ops to to the write_point's
list of pending work items until it's ready; this means we have to
change the lock protecting it to an irq-safe lock, but means
bch2_write_point_do_index_updates() no longer has to iterate over the
list, which is beneficial with the way the new BCH_WRITE_WAIT_FOR_EC
code works.
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>