If we get EAGAIN when trying to read from the socket, it is not an error.
Return 0 from the helper in this case to simplify the error handling cases
in the caller (indirectly, try_read).

Fix try_read to pass any error to it's caller (con_work) instead of almost
always returning 0.  This let's us respond to things like socket
disconnects.
Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@newdream.net>