Similarly to how polling first is supported for receive, it makes sense
to provide the same for accept. An accept operation does a lot of
expensive setup, like allocating an fd, a socket/inode, etc. If no
connection request is already pending, this is wasted and will just be
cleaned up and freed, only to retry via the usual poll trigger.

Add IORING_ACCEPT_POLL_FIRST, which tells accept to only initiate the
accept request if poll says we have something to accept.
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>