Add ipv4 check to irdma_find_listener(). Otherwise the function
incorrectly finds and returns a listener with a different addr family for
the zero IP addr, if a listener with a zero IP addr and the same port as
the one searched for has already been created.

Fixes: 146b9756 ("RDMA/irdma: Add connection manager")
Signed-off-by: Tatyana Nikolova <tatyana.e.nikolova@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Shiraz Saleem <shiraz.saleem@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230315145231.931-5-shiraz.saleem@intel.comSigned-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>