There's currently four users of the same logic to wait for a commit to
be flipped: three for the CRTCs, connectors and planes in
drm_atomic_helper_wait_for_dependencies, and one in vc4.

Let's consolidate this a bit to avoid any code duplication.
Suggested-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Signed-off-by: Maxime Ripard <maxime@cerno.tech>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20210111084401.117152-1-maxime@cerno.tech