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Add a "going_away" indication to ISM devices and IB ports and
avoid creation of new connections on such disappearing devices.

And do not handle ISM events if ISM device is disappearing.
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>