Let's ensure that we have an option for inner callers that will
raise WARN if device is not active and not protected by outer callers.

Make this also a void function forcing every caller to unconditionally
put the reference back afterwards.

This will be very important for cases where we want to hold the
reference before scheduling a work in a queue. Then the work job
will be responsible for putting it back.

While at this, already convert a case from mem_access_get_ongoing where
it is not checking for the reference and put it back, what would
cause the underflow.

v2: Fix identation.
v3: Convert equivalent missing put from mem_access towards pm_runtime.
Reviewed-by: Matthew Auld <matthew.auld@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240417203952.25503-1-rodrigo.vivi@intel.comSigned-off-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>