Fix a bug where bch2_btree_node_get() might call bch2_trans_unlock() (in
fill) without calling bch2_trans_relock(); this is a bug when it's done
in the core btree code.

Also, twea bch2_btree_node_mem_alloc() to drop btree locks before doing
a blocking memory allocation.
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>