spi: qup: switch to use modern name

Change legacy name master to modern name host or controller.

No functional changed.
Signed-off-by: Yang Yingliang <yangyingliang@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230818093154.1183529-10-yangyingliang@huawei.comSigned-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>