The hangs occur when the group_commit_orderer object is freed before the last
mark_start_commit() call on it - this loses the wakeup to other waiting worker
threads, causing them to hang until killed manually.

The object was freed because wakeup_subsequent_commits() was called two early
in two places. For MDEV-7888, during ANALYZE TABLE, and for MDEV-7929 during
record_gtid() after processing a DDL event. The group_commit_orderer object
can be freed when its last transaction has called wait_for_prior_commit().

Fix by implementing a suspend/resume mechanism for wakeup_subsequent_commits()
that can be used in places where a transaction is committed without this being
the commit of the actual replication event group.

Also add a protection mechanism (that asserts in debug builds) which can
prevent the too-early free and hang if other similar bugs should remain in
other parts of the code.