erroneous check

Problem: Actually there were two problems in the server code. The check
for SQLCOM_FLUSH in SF/Triggers were not according to the existing
architecture which uses sp_get_flags_for_command() from sp_head.cc .
This function was also missing a check for SQLCOM_FLUSH which has a
problem combined with prelocking. This changeset fixes both of these
deficiencies as well as the erroneous check in
sp_head::is_not_allowed_in_function() which was a copy&paste error.