Use variable waitfor_response_timeout (depending on TransactionDeadLockTimeout)
  When getting 4012, set NeedAbort and ReleaseOnClose


ndb/src/ndbapi/NdbConnection.cpp:
  Use variable for WAITFOR_RESPONSE_TIMEOUT
ndb/src/ndbapi/Ndbif.cpp:
  Use variable timeout for waitfor, 
    when receiving 4012, set NeedAbort and ReleaseOnClose
ndb/src/ndbapi/TransporterFacade.cpp:
  Init wait_for_response_timoue as max TRANSACTION_DEADLOCK_TIMEOUT
ndb/src/ndbapi/TransporterFacade.hpp:
  Init wait_for_response_timoue as max TRANSACTION_DEADLOCK_TIMEOUT
ndb/test/ndbapi/testTimeout.cpp:
  Add testcase for 4012
ndb/test/run-test/daily-basic-tests.txt:
  Add testcase for 4012