status

The problem appears to be a race condition, when service is being
stopped right after startup. We set the service status to SERVICE_RUNNING
way too early it cannot yet handle stop requests -  initialization has
not finished and  hEventShutdown  that signals server to stop is not yet
created. If somebody issues "net stop MySQL" at this time, MySQL is not
informed about the stop and continues to run as usual, while
NTService::ServiceMain() stucks forever waiting for mysql's "main" thread
to finish.

Solution is to remain in SERVICE_START_PENDING status until after server
initialization  is fully complete and only then change the status to
SERVICE_RUNNING. In  SERVICE_START_PENDING we do not accept service control
requests, i.e it is not possible to stop service in that time.

sql/mysqld.cc:
  Set service status to running after all initialization is complete
sql/nt_servc.cc:
  New method SetRunning() to be called  by application
  to set service status to SERVICE_RUNNING when apllication
  has finished initialization.
sql/nt_servc.h:
  New method SetRunning() to be called  by application
  when initialization completes