add file that got missing from last changset

  Add extra sleeps (conditionally) if user-ndb-object still exists during shutdown
  Note: This is not in anyway optimal, but i dont't really know in which order should be shutdown
        but it fixes problem...

Bug #20902 Alter table invalid schema version with statement-based binlogging
(latter caused by the above)

into  devsrv-b.mysql.com:/data0/knielsen/tmp-5.1

into  bodhi.local:/opt/local/work/mysql-5.1-runtime-merge-with-5.0

into  devsrv-b.mysql.com:/data0/knielsen/tmp-5.1

into  poseidon.ndb.mysql.com:/home/tomas/mysql-5.1-ndb

- keep accounting for aoutstanding drop trigger requests
- also lock table object in suma while doing that (should be impossible right now though since dict serializes all requests)

Disable test cases ndb_alter_table3, ndb_autodiscover3, ndb_dd_advance,
and ndb_multi in statement-based binlogging mode until bug can be fixed.

into  bodhi.netgear:/opt/local/work/mysql-5.1-runtime-merge-with-5.0

into  ymer.(none):/usr/local/mysql/tmp-5.1

into  bodhi.netgear:/opt/local/work/mysql-5.1-runtime-merge

removed alter table partition error test since it cannot be made predictable... name will change of created file

Fix random failures in test 'wait_timeout' that depend on exact timing.

1. Force a reconnect initially if necessary, as otherwise slow startup
might have caused a connection timeout before the test can even start.

2. Explicitly disconnect the first connection to remove confusion about
which connection aborts from timeout, causing test failure.

into  poseidon.ndb.mysql.com:/home/tomas/mysql-5.1-ndb

into  bodhi.netgear:/opt/local/work/mysql-5.1-runtime-merge-with-5.0

into  bodhi.netgear:/opt/local/work/mysql-5.1-runtime-merge

into  poseidon.ndb.mysql.com:/home/tomas/mysql-5.1-ndb

into trift2.:/M51/bug20216-5.1

into trift2.:/M51/merge-5.1

into  poseidon.ndb.mysql.com:/home/tomas/mysql-5.1-ndb

- missing order by

into  poseidon.ndb.mysql.com:/home/tomas/mysql-5.1-ndb

into  poseidon.ndb.mysql.com:/home/tomas/mysql-5.0

- don't invalidate tables that are in state RETRIEVING

into  perch.ndb.mysql.com:/home/jonas/src/mysql-5.1-new-ndb

into  poseidon.ndb.mysql.com:/home/tomas/mysql-5.1-ndb

into  poseidon.ndb.mysql.com:/home/tomas/mysql-5.1-ndb

into  perch.ndb.mysql.com:/home/jonas/src/mysql-5.1-new-ndb

into  mysql.com:/home/marty/MySQL/mysql-5.1

into  mysql.com:/home/ndbdev/ngrishakin/mysql-5.1-new-ndb

- flush gci needs to be reset on disconnect as cluster may reconnect after --initial with a smaller gci