not while tearing down, otherwise the modals get removed while
reconnecting and we have stale references to modals no longer in the
DOM.

- Add support for switching ephemerality after message creation
- Move more methods from ChatBox and ChatRoom to utils/stanza.js
- Rename 'ephemeral' to 'is_ephemeral' since it's a boolean

as opposed to having them in the `u` object

So that we don't need to `_converse` obj in order to log messages

also recommendation to enable smacks

Use `float:left` instead of flexbox

1. enable avatars in autocomplete
2. change search/filter type for automcomplete

Fixes #1769

- Move headless one-on-one chat functionality into converse-chat
- Split converse-headline into converse-headlines and converse-headlines-views
- Add api in `_converse.api.chatboxes` for creating chatboxes
- Add `_converse.api.controlbox.get` method

will add for more

Instead of taking an integer for the `type`, "info", "warn" or "error" should be passed in.

VCards were being created before `fetch` was completed, so once fetch
was done those VCards were unset from their collection.

Add a new event and promise `VCardsInitialized` that triggers after
successful fetching and wait for it before creating VCards.

Depend on latest backbone.browserStorage which has support for IndexedDB
via localforage.

Storage operations are now asynchronous and transactional.

Bugs fixed (mostly by waiting for operations to complete):

* Rooms are now fetched asynchronously, so wait before triggering `show`
  or when closing.
* Make sure chat create/update transactions complete before firing events
* Make sure chats and messages have been fetched before creating new ones.
* When doing a `fetch` with `wait: false` on a collection and then
  creating a model in that collection, then once the read
  operation finishes (after creating the model), the collection is emptied again.
* Patch and wait when saving.
  Otherwise we have previously set attributes overriding later ones.
* Make sure api.roomviews.close returns a promise

Test fixes:

* Chats are now asynchronously returned, so we need to use `await`
* Wait for the storage transaction to complete when creating and updating messages
* Wait for all chatboxes to close
    Otherwise we get sessionStorage inconsistencies due to the async nature of localforage.
* Wait for room views to close in spec/chatroom.js

In the process, remove the `closeAllChatBoxes` override in
converse-controlbox by letting the `close` method decide whether it
should be closed or not.