Fixes #3712 (hopefully) by reverting a small part of bbef4d74

exec() did not allow recent Python syntax features in Py3.8+ due to https://bugs.python.org/issue35975
Closes https://github.com/cython/cython/issues/3695

Rebased 1bb26b96 for cython 0.29.x,
and made conditional to Python 3.  This does not solve the original staticmethod problem
in Python 2 but it does resolve classmethod problems in Python 3.9.  Therefore, it unbreaks
other packages on Python 3.9, improves overall state for Python 3 and does not introduce
regressions in Python 2.

Re-add "c_api_binop_methods" directive for backwards compatibility after reverting https://github.com/cython/cython/pull/3633 and force it to "False".
Closes #3688.

This reverts commit e6a81240.

This reverts commit d849fb23.

This reverts commit bcb93877.

This reverts commit 02bb311d.

This reverts commit 66773260.

Closes https://github.com/cython/cython/pull/3677

Allow selecting specific doctests in test modules with "-k pattern", instead of always running all tests.

Closes https://github.com/cython/cython/issues/3674

Return statements inside of nested try-except statements lead to an incorrect control flow graph that did not take the outer 'finally' clauses into account.
Closes https://github.com/cython/cython/issues/3666

classmethod() should fall back to calling PyClassMethod_New() instead of deciding for itself that the type is invalid. (GH-3660)

Fixes https://github.com/cython/cython/issues/3642

Fix detection of reusable utility code: whenever we do string and/or unbound method replacements at all, it's not reusable.

* Add __Pyx_SET_SIZE() function: use Py_SET_SIZE() on Python 3.9.0a4
and newer, or use Py_SIZE() as an l-value on older Python versions.

Py_SIZE() must not be used as an l-value anymore in Python 3.9:
Py_SET_SIZE() must be used instead:

* https://bugs.python.org/issue39573
* https://docs.python.org/dev/c-api/structures.html#c.Py_SET_SIZE

* Add __Pyx_SET_REFCNT() function: use Py_SET_REFCNT() on Python 3.9.0a4
and newer, or use Py_REFCNT() as an l-value on older Python versions.

Py_REFCNT() must not be used as an l-value anymore in Python 3.9:
Py_SET_REFCNT() must be used instead:

* https://bugs.python.org/issue39573
* https://docs.python.org/dev/c-api/structures.html#c.Py_SET_REFCNT

Use it in ModuleNode.generate_usr_dealloc_call():

* Replace ++Py_REFCNT(o) with __Pyx_SET_REFCNT(o, Py_REFCNT(o) + 1)
* Replace --Py_REFCNT(o) with __Pyx_SET_REFCNT(o, Py_REFCNT(o) - 1)