Fix privilege escalation issue with OAuth external users

Related to https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/issues/19312

This MR fixes a privilege escalation issue, where manually set external users would be reverted back to internal users if they logged in via OAuth and that provider was not in the `external_providers` list.

/cc @douwe

See merge request !1975
(cherry picked from commit 5e6342b7)