chokidar has a newer version which do not depend on fsevents,
is faster and only compatible with newer node versions (>=8)

Their actual interface remains the same and we can safely _force_
newer versions to get performance and security benefits.

This can be removed once all dependencies are up to date:
https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/issues/219353

It should also alleviate the problem of:
https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-development-kit/-/issues/765