This patch addresses a bug where RDMA_CM_EVENT_DISCONNECTED may occur
before the connection shutdown has been completed by rx/tx threads,
that causes isert_free_conn() to wait indefinately on ->conn_wait.

This patch allows isert_disconnect_work code to invoke rdma_disconnect
when isert_disconnect_work() process context is started by client
session reset before isert_free_conn() code has been reached.

It also adds isert_conn->conn_mutex protection for ->state within
isert_disconnect_work(), isert_cq_comp_err() and isert_free_conn()
code, along with isert_check_state() for wait_event usage.

(v2: Add explicit iscsit_cause_connection_reinstatement call
     during isert_disconnect_work() to force conn reset)

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org  # 3.10+
Cc: Or Gerlitz <ogerlitz@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Nicholas Bellinger <nab@linux-iscsi.org>