Soft delete issuables

Fixes #2489 

What still needs to happen: research on the indexes, the gem suggests a [lot of changes](https://github.com/rubysherpas/paranoia#about-indexes) though this is probably a good idea to discuss and I'm unsure on the impact of an omnibus upgrade as I suspect creating about 10 new indexes has a large impact on the downtime.

TODO: 
- [x] Also group owners can ***soft*** delete
- [x] Button should be hidden

See merge request !2982