* Fix: async SetUserJID

If `auto_login` is false, we shouldn't log in, so we only try to log in when
it is true. Otherwise we still try to restore the BOSH session (if applicable).

rename `autoJoin` to `connect`

- Split between `login` auth and the rest (`external`, `anonymous`, `prebind`)
- It doesn't make sense to pass along credentials when not using `login` auth so avoid that flow.
- It's not necessary to pass the `reconnecting` flag to `attemptNonPreboundSession`

given that it's implicit and can cause confusion

* Don't set JID resource when logging in anonymously. The resource will be set by the server.
* Don't wipe the `id` from the session when clearing it.

So that we can remove the textarea if we're a visitor in a moderated room.

Instead optimize in other ways.

Also:
- Don't fade in when `animate` is false.
- `trimChats` now gets called in `afterShown`.
- Add now event `beforeShowingChatView`

and bump default timeout

Also let `_converse.api.waitUntil` use it if a function is passed in.

These two commit should ideally be one, but I inadvertently pushed to
remote too early.

Includes some refactoring:

- Don't send an `active` chat state notification when entering a MUC
  I can't think of a good reason why this might be necessary or desired.
- Move `setChatState` form the view to the model
- Remove unused method `handleChatStateNotification`
- Don't store `role` and `affiliation` for the current user on the
  ChatRoom object, but instead on the ChatRoomOccupant object representing
  the user.

Also update to newer strophe.js version which contains a bugfix.

Otherwise when `removeNonMembers` gets called as we reconnect, we get a
long list of erroneous leave notifications.

This change reverts the significant part of 1dfdb36d

I can't say that I understand why libsignal throws `Error: Invalid signature`
when you try to build a session for your own (sending) device, but given that
messages can only be decrypted once, I guess it isn't really necessary
to encrypt for your own device, since you already have the plaintext.

In addition I've added some error handling so that we can recover
gracefully when session building fails for a subset of devices.

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