make refnanny output easier to detect when used outside of doctests, print number of references leaked

fix for refnanny C code in dict iteration: generate all GOTREFs before all coercions before all assignments to properly handle error cases

work around C compiler warnings about unused utility functions by registering the signature with the smallest dependency last

Fixes setup filename in Demos/Makefile.

Fix "PyErr_Format + PY_FORMAT_SSIZE_T likely broken in Win64"

Add '/openmp' flag when compiling Cpp code with msvc compilers